Give less of a fuck and get more of your Life back
As women we are being constantly inundated with CHAOS.
Stretched out our life time up until now, the constant hum of a distant threat, the need to be constantyl protecting our energy, feeling drained after spending time with anyone other than ourselves.
We have become well accustomed to feeling disregulated, feeling undervalued, to making sure everyone else is okay and to ingoring at own desires.
This is the standard and this is the norm.
It has been pushed by
If you are aware, which is why you’re reading this blog now, and you have been drawn to my page.
You are becoming aware of 2 things:
You’re sick of how it feels to live a stale life
You want to feel more expressed and alive with your feminine radiance.
These are all well and good in theory, we understand them at an intrinsic level but how do we bring them into our existence on a day to day basis.
The answer is very simple.
You stop giving a f*ck about anything.
Everything, you let it all go.
You put your hands up and stop giving a sh*t.
I know this sounds counterinituive to everything we’ve been taught about what it means to be a good women and a feminine woman and a goddess.
But there is to parts to this inccredible formula:
You stop giving a fuck about anything other than your happiness
The alarms go off, I can hear them from here.
That makes me selfish
That makes me a bitch
That makes me narcisstic
But you are exhausted and drained because you have swung to far in the other direction my love.
Lets look at the opposties of these spectrums and i want you to tell me which one you identify more with.
Be honest.
The opposite of selfish is to be selfless.
Self Less.
The oppposite of a bitch is a aggreeable.
Agree able.
The opposite of narcissitc is an echosit.
And im going to share with you the definition of an echoist.
echoist: someone who suppresses their own needs, opinions, and feelings, echoing those of others instead, often due to a fear of appearing narcissistic or needy.
Now.
I want you to tell me when you read them, which ones make you feel more excited.
I would like to argue, softly 😏
That being selfish has been coined as bad for women, because if we were to start: prioritizing our own emotional alignment and happiness. It would distract us from serving others, drain our life force energy (feminine energy) and return us into that of service towards others.
And who does this benefit?
EVERYONE but ourselves.
When you are radiant, the moments when you feel most alive, aligned and arrived.
What are you doing?
How are you feeling?
Are you feeling happy and expressed in your own special way.
Are you dancing and moving your body.
Are you doing something that brings you joy and pleasure?
Or are you miniziming yourself, are you shrinking your expansive energy, are you making sure youre aware of whats going on around you to fit in.
Its painful to recognise until you start to embody and step into this landscape.
That your power, your energy and your radiance will trigger almost everybody.
Because what you are expressing is divine light force energy, you become a conduit to God.
When you stop caring and start surrendering, you open yourself up for energy to move through you at rapid rates.
Because you become more trusting, in life.
You become less focused on others.
Less restricted in your body.
And you allow yourself to BE!
Exactly as you are.
I know this is a large concept to grasp, because it feels so new and a bit sticky.
But I want you to try, just for the rest of your day.
When that little voice pipes up that makes you feel small, or needs you to be selfless or agreeable.
I want you to speak to that voice and just say ‘ I dont give a fuck. but thank you’
And smile, just see if you can open subltly to that feeling.
Let me know how it goes.
I’m so excited for you to step more into your power.
Lots of love,
Kaliya
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